Our Mission

Essentially…this photo. 

This site is intended to be a cut down version of the book I started writing early 2021. Here you will find excerpts of the book as well as some extra things that others and I came across after the books publication.

Where do I start?

Not sure where to start? Here’s a list of some articles that you can start yourself off with 

Articles to wet your appetite

Still under construction...

This site is still very much a work in progress; there will be omissions, editing errors, and mistakes. If you find something, feel free to get in touch, or just laugh and wait for us to find it 😀

FAQ

No. While this is a site that discusses sexual and intimate concepts, it’s not intended to be a porn site…although you are free to use it as such; some of the content here may get pretty steamy

Good question! It will still be relevant, although some sections are specific to those that are interacting with a female partner; let me explain…

As I (Dristan) am in fact a man, and heterosexual, much of the content I wrote for my book and this site will be written through the lens of a straight dudes experience and intuition. 

That said, I realized this unconscious bias about half way through writing the book, so I re-examined what I was writing. Much of it is still relevant to men that sleep with men, women that sleep with men, and even women that want to up their game with their male partners.

I decided to make an effort to write with gender neutral and inclusive language, people should not be kept from accessing information just because they are gender diverse.

Really this book will have some value for everyone, a person that enjoys physical closeness with another person. 🙂 

I must confess, disappointingly so in fact, that the book is not yet ready. 

Rest assured that I will be advertising everything here as soon as it is ready for purchase 😀 

Nothing. All this information is free.

Although this site is a cut down version of the book, there should still be more than enough reading here to keep you in trouble with your partner(s)

😉

Yes. If you want to reach out, you can contact me via the contact page.

I may take a few days to get to responses as I have other projects I commit my time to; like teaching Shibari classes

Shibari is a form rope bondage from Japan, it is focused on creating connection and intimacy with a partner, as well as offering unique experiences for both the top and bottom, all with one or more lengths of rope. 

Contact me for more information on this or to book a class if you are in New Zealand.

YES! 100% 

We love community, and if you have something really unique you’d like to share, please share it. If its something that fits in to the format of the posts on this site, we might just post it. 🙂

Early in 2021 I’d have told you I have no idea why I’m writing this book or site. 

Honestly I didn’t even want to take on this project; I figured that I surely couldn’t have any serious wealth of information to offer the world on this subject. 

I didn’t even consider taking on this little writing journey seriously until two of my ex girlfriends told me I should write down some of the things they’ve experienced with me, and an author friend of mine that I respect greatly encouraged me to pursue the project

Curious for more?

If you’re curious about what else we have to offer, check out the rest of our articles 

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